- No, that man is not the love of your life; he’s just looking for a good time.
If you’ve ever been in a situation where a guy at the club charmed you into spending most of your time with him, you wouldn’t be alone. Men, especially those who are conventionally attractive, know they can get whatever they want when a girl has inbibed more than a few. Not to say men are evil, they aren’t. Just be aware of yourself and the context. Would he have come up to you if you were just walking down the street?
- If someone offers you a drink, go with him; you never know what his intentions are…
You may be in a situation where a guy is trying to make a move, and you want to see where it goes. He may offer you a drink. This rule isn’t forbidding you from accepting it.
- Angel shots (If you feel unsafe, don’t be afraid to ask for help)
- Have a clear game plan with your friends (Where you’re going, when, and how you’re getting back)
- Never leave someone alone; always be in a group, even when going to the bathroom
- Girls are your best friends
- Don’t be afraid to shove back if people are starting to squish you
- If someone is trying to cause trouble, don’t engage
There are a lot of people who are there just because they want to cause some trouble; they’re like the one friend who just keeps trying to start drama. The key is to not engage; they may insult you or purposefully bump into you, it is key that you don’t let your ego get in the way and just ignore them. Trust us, you do not want to end up in the hospital or in the back of a police car because of a small club fight.
- Dress for comfort, not for looks (Nice but comfortable)
- Don’t be afraid to say no
- Be aware of “suspicious-looking people” and have a plan if someone is being weird towards you
- Bartenders and security are there to help you
- Have one designated friend who has drunk less
When you are drunk,k your senses are impaired. You can’t think as clearly, so if there is a problem, it can be difficult to get out of it
- Don’t linger outside the club too long after closing
Unfortunately,ely there are some awful people out there. With the MAD specific, ally, some men linger outside the club with the sole purpose of trying to take advantage of one of the women leaving. So before you go outside, have your transport home arranged,d and once you exit the club, go quickly.